The most important conversations are the ones that we have with ourselves. These conversations are the internal communications that take place in our minds as a reaction to all the stimuli that exist around us. It is not only what defines the state of our minds also affects the outcome of our behavior and achievements. These conversations are the keys to our successes, triumphs, failures, or our disappointments. Minding these conversations requires asking yourself challenging questions and trying to find those honest questions. We can objectify those questions by communicating with our trusted family members and friends, and at times with our trusted life coaches, mentors, counselors or psychiatrists. When we go and see a counselor or psychiatrist we are actually trying to find a safe place to lay out our conversations with ourselves. This is the reason that from commandos and athletes in training, to CEOs; inspiring conversations to help optimize their performance.
The more we train ourselves with healthy conversations, the more we prepare for positive outcomes. Before we indulge in a consequential self-conversation, we must visualize the dreams we want to realize and goals that need to be attained. Let’s start today to become more mindful of the conversations that we are having ourselves to achieve our true potential.